You've never done this before. That's the problem.
Divorce is a process most people enter exactly once, with no training, at the lowest emotional point of their lives, against a deadline, with their money, their children, and their future on the table.
Your attorney knows the law. Your financial advisor knows the numbers. Nobody is helping you think. That's what a certified divorce coach does.
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Start with the guides
Five longer pieces covering the questions people ask first. Read these before you hire anyone.